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LESSON OF THE MONTH FOR SEPTEMBER, 2008: ::: Many things are hidden from you

Hello again my dear readers, I wish to bring you all a little closer to understanding just how many truths are hidden from you, some for good reasons and others for complete control over you for selfish motives of the few.

Anyone that undertakes this sort of revealing puts themselves in a lot of danger from groups who do not wish you to know the truth but I do not fear these groups or individuals because I know things that they are hiding from you and you have the right to know, and these things are not conspiracy theories, these things are real.

The medical industry alone and the manufacturers of pharmaceuticals work together to sell you things that most times are not really needed and they work together to make you believe you do need them to survive, so number one is the fear tactic to get you to go on this drug because it is new and improved, do not just take my word for it because that is exactly what I am showing you the dangers of, look it up for yourself and you will see the proof for yourself and can make up your own minds.

Let me simply say this, we have been programmed by lack of choice to think that doctors know all about health and we know nothing, doctors are not telling you that nearly all diseases are psychosomatic in nature caused by feelings that are not in alignment with the source or truth, so fear is one of the greatest disease causing things we know of along with hatred, suppressed emotions, guilt, blame, jealousy, pride, anger, resentment and all these things stem from the mind alone and doctors and others in power know this.

We could literally add to our current police forces and the same with army personnel across the globe 100 times what they are now and you will feel no safer, it is not what makes us feel safe because the more police you see the more nervous it makes you because your mind is then forced to think I must live in a very bad society if it takes this many police or army to keep me safe, it is fear my dear friends that make us think that we need others to protect us, in truth it is fear based thinking that produces the need for such entities in the first place and it is a wise person who asks are most of the laws we live under there for our protection or for control of the masses.

As always this is not the fault of the police officer or the soldier they do what they are told to do and as many people already realize it is where the laws are made that the problems begin, fear at the top, control at the top is what creates control and fear at the bottom of the pile, that is us.

You have been taught that you cannot look after yourself that you cannot protect yourself and this has become truth for many but I am here to tell you that most of that belief is because of fear based programming and lies through media and other departments of unquestionable power, if it were really true then why are there still more murders now than ever before, more assaults than ever before the truth is if someone wanted to get you or attack you the police or army could not stop it, an attack takes seconds to minutes now which police force in the world responds that fast?

The law does play many very important roles as we all know and no one is denying that but what I am trying to tell you is safety or danger is mainly in your mind and how you choose to see your world or how you have been lead to believe your world is.

Fear attracts things and events to fear, it is that simple, a dear friend of mine is always looking up things on medical sites on the internet and finding symptoms that might be something bad, she will say but look it says it right here dizziness and flushing say that it means I have this disease or that disease, there is nothing physically wrong with her at all, it is her mind that is convincing her to find things that could go wrong that will eventually lead her to illness because this is what she chooses to focus upon to the point of fearing everything but she could instead focus upon all the reasons why she is in good health, the word says it my friends DIS-EASE means lack of ease of the mind ,body and spirit.

Of course once this happens for long enough you then get the disease confirmed and everyone in the vicinity of you just compounds the fact by talking about, thinking about it, worrying about it, which all affects you even more and there we have the fear working against you at an enormous rate.

Scientists are just discovering that genetics may not play as big a part in family diseases as the actual environment we are in discussing and fearing these illnesses from others who had it before us.

Banks and other places that you pay services for and pay bills to all have in their structures guidelines and policies that can actually help you financially when you are in money strife but here is the truth, most will not tell you about your rights unless you ask them about them and many banks have services to increase money like special accounts that they simply will not tell you about because if everyone used them they would be undermined.

A bank runs successfully on the knowledge and hope that everyone would not choose to pull all their money out at the same time because if they did the bank does not actually have all that money in actual funds at any given time, most money is not real, it is digits on a computer screen that do not actually exist, so the manipulation of money and continual transference of real money to give the illusion of security is maintained at least publicly.

All stocks worldwide are reliant on hope or fear when fear of bailouts occur stocks drop dramatically because of an assumption that the support will be removed, so recessions always start and recover in the minds of people and not because of shortage of any kind that is real.

Insurance companies that get you to sign up for protection also don’t tell you that they are also insured or what is called re-insurance in case they cannot cover all insurance payouts in the case of a huge catastrophe such as hurricanes and so on and the people they get to re-insure them are also re-insured so the questions we must ask are where is the real security in insurance and to be really honest people only buy insurance because of fear in the first place and this is why commercials of life insurance usually always pull on your heart strings and fear to get you to sign up by showing funerals.

The people that supply the weapons for mass destruction or even regular latest technologies weaponry are some of the richest people in the world today, they need to sell what they make to make their money and a scared country buys all these latest technologies to give the effect of being safe to the public, but there is so much money being made in this industry that all involved are becoming wealthy of the fear of your governments and the fear of the public and there are so many people in so many industries now reliant on this income that it is nearly impossible to stop the machine it has become no matter how much you or I would like peace, there is no money in peace.

Since the early forties brave people have stood against this machine built by elite groups but to no real avail, it has not made enough progress to get rid of one nuclear missile, it has not stopped world control or hunger, it has only served if anything to increase our sense of fear and insecurity, so I guess the whole point of this lesson is people realize that fear is a tool that has been used to control you thinking for yourself, my message may sound like all doom and gloom but what I say to that is this is what we have had for a long time I did not create it it is there to be seen if you choose to see it, John Lennon knew that things had to change, he spoke up and was ASSASINATED FOR IT AND Nixon feared what he was telling people more than anything else.

Nelson Mandela the same thing happened and who of course has not heard the struggles of our biggest religious icon Jesus and the price he paid for the truth, people all I ask is seek the truth above all things, do not fear it but learn to stop fearing from it.

The people in power control what is deemed as the average wage and they also determine the price of products and services through the economy so it is not hard to see why many are trapped and control by financial things alone, no money no power, you cannot eat without money, you cannot get medical help without money so this is the control we are under.

Some books for reading to help you understand what is really going on are THE TRUTH ABOUT HIV written by Steve ranson and Philip day and another book called Hidden truth, Forbidden knowledge by Steven M Green M.D.

I have also started to have people ask me about the chance I can make the lesson of the month more regular but I simply do not have the time so instead what I am offering is a daily direct to your email spiritual quote or inspirational message for a yearly fee for those interested.

MUCH LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL

SHAWN WINGARD.

LESSON OF THE MONTH FOR AUGUST, 2008: ::: Why things go wrong

I would like to talk about why things seem to go wrong in our lives and some things we can do to start to change them from today onwards.

It will not be easy in fact it will take a complete overhaul of the thought process that you are used to using to fix problems, as usual this will be a little too much for some of my readers to see but it is all worth the effort if it allows you to open up your awareness just even a little bit. There ARE TWO SIDES TO ALL LIFE, yes that is right two sides to everything you are aware of and depending on what side you are focusing on and working from you will get a whole different set of results based solely on this alone.

Every subject then becomes two subjects and these are lack of something or abundance of something, so we end up having a society full of haves and have nots.

First look at something that is on the mind of most of you most of the time, money, you either have a lot or you do not have a lot and what I am saying is your current wealth level is entirely brought about according to whether you look at your wealth as being not enough or thinking you have plenty.

It could be the same amount in the bank account for both people but one lot of people will be grateful and be so gracious about how much they have, on the other hand someone with the same amount in the bank account could be thinking that this is not enough so I do not appreciate what I have I just want more or its not enough.

So the difference is the two groups of people are focusing on different aspects of the same subject therefore it becomes really two subjects, plenty of money and lack of money.

This starts to show why some people are haves and the others are have nots, depending on what one of these you focus on you will be validated by the universe to show you are right because that is what you believe, the people who look at the money they have and are scared of losing it will lose it and those who look at how much money they do have will get more because they are focusing on abundance not poverty.

Thought of not enough create not enough and thoughts of plenty create plenty.

If you are talking about being the have not of any subject whether it be health, money, happiness fill in the blank you will get lack of those things, if you focus on the good health you have and are appreciating that you will get more good health, if you are focusing and talking about how sick you are and telling everyone that story over and over you will attract more sickness to validate your own limited belief in illness as a real thing.

People say to me that I never get sick and this is largely due to the fact that I choose not to believe in that reality I am always saying to my self and others I never get sick, and my body responds to that signal, your body is your servant and your mind is the captain you get to choose which way you steer your body and your body will respond to commands of sickness or health depending on the what you are saying and feeling.

As an example when you are not feeling in a good mood or feeling down you have just joined in the have not group of people because you are focusing on something you do not have in order to feel that way, but if you are feeling good obviously you are focusing on something you want or already have and are grateful for so you will be in the haves category and attract more of that into your reality.

So instead of focusing on not being well focus on being well, focus on being abundant as opposed to being broke and focus on being happy because this automatically lines you up with all that is good coming to you because that is the way you feel.

Just one last thing to keep in mind to all my beloved readers, do not push against or resist or hate the things in your life that do not please you, love them anyway just the way they are because in your adverse reactions to the things you do not want you are actually creating more of it, but by sending love to those things you don’t want anyway you are dissolving the hold it has in your reality.

LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL,

SHAWN WINGARD.

LESSON OF THE MONTH FOR JULY, 2008: :::Over action

Most people alive in this current day are living under an illusion that the best way to achieve something is through action, action and more action. If they feel a situation is getting beyond their control they tend to automatically go into action mode, I hate to remind people of something very important that has been known by the few for thousand of years, known by the few not because it is a secret but because of ignorance to the truth. So called Law of Attraction teachers who have watched the secret and all of a sudden think of themselves as qualified teachers, they have jumped on the bandwagon and many people now are learning I have noticed that action is the missing ingredient, sorry, you are being misled. In all the ancient scriptures action is not even mentioned, what it is though is a modern overcompensation for a lack of faith, so if people are not getting what they want they think more action will make it work, again this is incorrect. The only time when action is required is when it is inspired action and this feels much different than regular action, how does it feel different? well for starters it doesn’t feel like an effort at all, it feels good and it feels right. Struggle or going into survival mode is fear and it is also you trying to fix physically what you have thought incorrectly. So you are trying to change the effect and not the cause, the cause is your thoughts and what they are creating, if you are creating the right way and the right things action becomes unnecessary with most of the mundane in our lives. I have noticed this trend on hundreds of law of attraction sites on the internet and they are all incorrect in saying that action is the missing ingredient, Jesus, Thoth, Buddha and many other great teachers must be looking down on us thinking how did our pure, simple message get so messed up, action cannot replace faith which is the required ingredient that is missing if anything, not trusting the power and wisdom of the universe is what is missing. If you need to act physically how is that called a miracle? Miracles are not formed with our hands; they are formed in our hearts and minds.

To finish off realise this, action is necessary but only inspired action, the majority of success in life is due to correct thought not over action, ask any labourer about this one, and remember also that the law of attraction is precise and faultless it works all the time with everything so if you believe that you must act a lot to achieve your desires this will be true for you but in the same vein if you believe all your dreams will come to you with little effort this will also become your reality, I did say believe not simply think.

A simple truth to live by; If it doesn’t feel good when you are doing something, the result will not feel good either, if you feel good about what it is that you are doing, then the result will also be one you feel good about.

Joy gives birth to more joy,
Faith gives birth to more faith,
Action gives birth to more action.
Ask, believe, receive!(action optional)
Love and light to you all,

SHAWN WINGARD.

LESSON OF THE MONTH FOR JUNE 2008 : ::: Changing your future by rewriting your past

Hello again to all my readers, first of all allow me to apologise for missing a few lessons I have been going through massive changes in my spiritual life and I did not feel it would have been right to teach while undergoing such a drastic transformation, I needed to be sure of who I was becoming before putting anything on here as a duty to my readers.

This month I would like to touch on a subject of how our past can and does affect our future and some things we may do to help us undo harmful memories that may have shaped our beliefs to our detriment.

Many of us have experienced negative things in our childhood or earlier adult years that have shaped our belief systems and it is our beliefs systems that ultimately are shaping our life in the people we attract, the attitudes we attract and the events we attract to ourselves via universal laws, if we had a childhood where we did not feel loved or were treated in such a way that we did not feel a high self worth chances are this still affects the way you act and feel now. If you have been hurt in relationships and have lost trust in others because of this you can easily anchor relationships to pain in your mind and this again causes attitudinal changes that affects future outcomes until you change your beliefs about these things to a more productive and positive vibration.

Whenever you re-member a past negative memory you are actually in a sense re-living the vibration of that time frame and feel the pain of it in the here and now moment so you are bringing back any karma attached to that event to now all over again because you have not forgiven it or released it to heal, if the memory brings up strong negative emotions then you are on your way to re-creating it again in your pre-sent time frame and im sure if people realised that this was happening they would focus on good things more often and bad memories less.

The good news is there is something that you can do about it right now to help you deal with this problem, it will take work and discipline but it is worth the work if you could see how transformative this exercise can be.

The first thing we must realise is that we tag or anchor past events positive or negative with good or bad feelings, but if we take the time to revisit these memories and we-write how we felt about them we can change future outcomes related to those areas in our lives to be positive, for example if you did not feel loved as a child and you resent a parent or guardian for that you can choose to look at it from a higher perspective and perhaps tell yourself that the parent or guardian at the time did not know any better for their level of evolvement, or alternatively you can choose to see it from a point of view like what did you learn from the experience as opposed to what pain you experienced from it, there are many examples I could give but the main thing is you have the complete power within yourself to re-choose how you re-member these experiences. We can use visualization techniques to rewrite our life scripts and therefore change our future outcomes by an internal attitudinal change about all painful past experiences and replace them with understanding and loving ones, this exercise when done properly is very powerful and can be extremely life changing for the individual who will give it a try.

To all my much loved readers I encourage you to at least try these techniques for my wish is to help you empower yourselves and know that the power of change is within you and only you, what people have done to you cannot be changed but how you view what happened to you definitely can be changed and it is in this knowledge that change and healing can occur.

Much love and light to you all,

Shawn wingard.

Lesson For December 2007 ::Feed your senses the right food for harmony::

Hello and welcome again to my lesson of the month, this month I would like to address the environment in which we choose to live and how the different factors affect us in positive and negative ways according to ideal spiritual growth potential.

First of all let’s look at who we live with if this relates to you, the people that we live with can have either a detrimental effect on our health, spiritual growth and many other factors that can either limit us or enhance our potential to grow and I do not think enough people give this too much thought, if you have children there is no doubt you love them but how much of your day if filled with yelling, screaming and continual noise that does not give your spirit a minutes solitude to centre yourself, being a full time parent is one of the hardest spiritual paths to conquer in my opinion and anyone who has children would know exactly what I mean.

Other noises and the emotions of others have a strong effect on all of us as well, so if you have a teenager or spouse who is angry around you or simply walking around the house surrounded by their own little grey cloud this is bound to affect the entire energy of the home and everyone in it.
If you are looking after someone who is sick this can also drop the vibrations of all individuals in the house, so if you are someone who is always running around looking afters the needs of others and do not make time to centre yourself each day you are going to suffer in mental, spiritual and physical ways.

The direct environment is also an important factor to consider, is your living situation is one of clutter and undone housework? If it is you are asking for trouble because the mind does not like to feel like it has no space to expand, if you live in an environment which has poor ventilation, lack of sunlight or simply no room to move without bumping into each other, something must be changed or you risk going insane in a spiritual sense.

In a small refined and cluttered environment all the peoples energies in that environment are being more magnified than normal and can add up to a very strong cocktail of dense and heavy energy which will again drop the vibrations of all in that home.

Pets are great and they can give us healing energies but if you have a dog or dogs that are always barking this will keep your body in tense mode, try meditating while a dog is barking, it is not very pleasant and in most cases it is impossible if you use the traditional type of meditation like I do and that is silent mediation without music.

Don’t get me wrong some sounds are actually good for us and can add to our level of relaxation but obviously if it is harsh in nature it is good for nothing except dis-harmony and to add tension to our body temple, nature sounds can be great like running water and birds or even wind chimes can be soothing for your spirit, if you ignore what your spirit needs in order to grow for too long you are going to fall ill because of the lack of ease in your body, when we are scared, tired,worried,angry or sad our body can not stay in that state for too long before it goes into a state of dis-ease and if it stays in a state of dis-ease for too long a disease will manifest in our bodies physically.

The colours you have where you live are also very important factors in a sense that certain colours make us feel certain ways and without us being aware of it on a conscious level, calming colours affect us in calming ways and harsh colours have an opposite effect, even the way your furniture is arranged can cause blockages in energy through the home and smells can make us well or sick, if you are a person that uses chemicals to clean your home this can make you nauseated and dizzy, it is far better to use natural cleaning materials for the overall environment and for the health and well being of your own family, tiles are better than carpets, blinds are better than curtains and an open window is much more natural than gas heating or air-conditioning.

All appliances in your home all give of energy that if not looked after and maintained can cause excess energy leakage into your home, especially microwaves and computers.

If you are living next to a busy road or airport you will find it extremely challenging to get the quiet you need to go inside as often as you need to find the inner stillness.

We can all do little things to increase harmony around us and bring ourselves more inner peace and this does not take money but planning and a bit of work or rearranging of what we already have. Do whatever you need to do to get more quiet time for your self and when you do find the time do not spend it on thinking about the outside world and its illusionary problems but go inside and listen to the voice of your inner self and find the peace amongst the chaos, it is more important in this time and age than any other time in our history to stay in touch with our spirit.

It may feel good to indulge in alcohol and other drugs to numb ourselves and try to convince ourselves that it is good for us because we feel good when we consume such things but I tell you now that most drugs that are easily obtainable are depressants and depressants depress your feelings, emotions and your eternal spirit.
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Lesson For November 2007 ::FREE WILL::

There is no greater law and gift than that of the ability to have free will, this means that we can be whoever we want, do whatever we want and behave however we want, of course there is the law of cause and effect to consider in this equation but we still have the right to use our will as we please at all times.

If we look at the word behave, this means if we split the word and look at its meaning more closely we get be-have in other words what we are choosing to be will dictate to us in the end what we will have or not have, if people looked at this more often before they made a choice of what they wanted to be they would then already have a future insight to what they have chosen to be will allow them to have or not have.

So if you decide using your free will to be someone who is hurting others you will have in return people who will hurt you, this is not saying that you may not choose this but along with the knowledge that you do indeed have free will also comes the responsibility of knowing what power you have and the responsibility to others this also entails.

In all my lessons thus far you will find that I have given advice about empowerment and responsibility but none of these lessons should be taken on in any way if they do not resonate with your free will, this would take away the whole point of you discovering who you are, learn from as many people as you wish and at the end of each day only take away with you that which makes you feel good and discard the rest, there is no wrong or right in this world, there is only your opinion of it and from that you are discovering who you are to a greater and greater degree each time you form an opinion about something.

Your job is to find those things and people and environments that give you the most joy, if you no longer choose the same thing you chose twelve months ago then re-choose to something that would bring you greater joy, each time you re-choose you are reinventing yourself to become your higher version of yourself assuming that you are making choices from the direction of pursuit of more joy.
If you are making choices based on your insecurities or fears the outcome will be more situations, relationships and jobs that will bring about more insecurities fears and doubts, because your motivation or your intention was based in that so that will be the outcome.

Choose all things for joys sake and the outcome will be joyous because this intent was the seed from which the outcome will bear its fruit.

Knowing that you have free will at every turn is also a very empowering thought because it stops you from blaming others around you for where you find yourself, if you hate a job, remember you chose to work there, if you do not like an ex-partner or a current partner remember you chose to be with that person, no-one twisted your arm so free will is great but if you do not use it with respect then you will get what you give out, you will get back what you have chosen every time because you and not someone else chose that.

It is easy however because you know that you have chosen this person or this job to choose again and keep re-choosing until you find your happiness and joy, you may hurt others in the process of going through partners and jobs until you finally choose the right one but this only meant that that job or partner or whatever it may be was not the right one for you, when it is you will know the difference, because it will bring you joy every time.

If someone is influencing you to be someone that does not bring you joy, do not despise that person because you are allowing them to influence you and if you have made choices based on what they told you to do well it is you that allowed yourself to make that choice on their behalf and by not listening and honouring what it was that you wanted to do that would have brought you to a place of joy.

Free will is the greatest gift that we all have bar none but keep in mind that it is also the greatest responsibility for all of us to use wisely or pay the consequences of unwanted results in our lives, for we are choosing and creating our realities and no one else can do that for us, everything that you have or have not, everything that you are being or not being, everything that you are feeling or not feeling are the results of your wise or unwise use of your powerful ability to have and express your free will.

LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL
SHAWN WINGARD.


Lesson For October 2007 ::HOW TO KNOW WHEN YOU ARE ON TRACK::

How often have you wondered to yourself whether a choice you made was a right or a wrong one? How many more times in your future do you think you will have the same dilemma?

When you do have a tough choice to make which may have huge ramifications depending on the result of that choice, how do you decide? Like whether to stay in your current job or to stay living in the home you are living in or move to another home... even financial goals, how do we decide where to invest our hard earned dollars?

Do you ask a friend or do you ask parents what they think before you make your choice?

There is a way to know every time what choice to make that is foolproof, without having to go to anyone else for the answers, it is simpler than you may think and if you follow this method you are destined to make the right choice after right choice and finally get the life that you have always wanted.

Most people believe it or not make their choice by their fears and insecurities rather than by using what we call listening to our emotional feedback, too many people are in jobs that they hate simply because they are too scared to leave and try to work somewhere else that could bring them happiness, so their fears make the choice for them and they stay right where they are and stay miserable, the same goes with relationships, most people who are in relationships that are unhappy stay there because they are too insecure to let go of the old to welcome in the new and in this process stay in a relationship that will simply bring them more misery, I touched on the effects of our fears in our last lesson and it is important to stop making our choices from this perspective, fearful choices will bring us fruit of the sour tree because this is where it was born from.

In order to make the right choices that will serve your higher good you must seek to find the answers to your problems from your feelings, if you decide to stay in your job and you are feeling terrible about that choice this is your emotions saying to you to leave that job, that this is not a right choice, if you think about staying with a partner and the feeling or feedback from that thought is negative this is your emotions or feeling telling you to get out and unless you learn to honour the feedback from your emotions you will continue to be with the wrong people, work in the wrong jobs and live an incorrect lifestyles to your own detriment.

When you think about your job and the feeling you get back from that thought is one of joy and fulfilment this is a sign from your intuition or emotional guidance system to stay there, this is following your higher path at that point in time, it really is that simple and that accurate, if you have always asked the advice of others before you make a choice you are not using something within yourself that is designed to answer all questions for you, the problem with opinions is that everyone has one or more of them that they will more often than not give away freely to you at any given time, but they do not know what your path is , they do not know what life is like from your perspective so in most cases advice from another is nothing more than that their opinion therefore the effectiveness is taken away from your own personal growth, you are going outside for answers when the answers are right there within you.

Every thought that you have as you go through your everyday life has feedback that is coming back to you, listen to it, and honour it no matter how scary the answer may be for you, as scary as it may seem to follow this feeling you are being guided to a higher place and if it makes you feel terrified to leave that job or that that partner learn be strong and realise that if you follow the happy thoughts it will take you to another step in your evolvement, you will go up a level in your life to a better place, it can be very scary but this is your fears speaking and controlling you and they have got you in more trouble since you were young than anything else, follow your bliss, if something feels good honour it, do not ignore it no matter how strange it seems, spirit can see the big picture of your path whereas you cannot, trust in it to bring you to your higher path in life and make your life what it should have always been before you allowed fear to make your choices for you and end up in that dead end job, or miserable relationship, or got you in bad shape health wise.

Follow your bliss always, it does no matter what others think of your choices do what brings you joy and the life will follow that brings you joy, think like a soldier because courage has its own set of rewards that nothing else can bring you, all the education, all the knowledge in the world will fall short if it is not coupled with a strong outgoing of courage thrown in the mix.

LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL
SHAWN WINGARD.

Lesson For September 2007 ::FEAR AND YOUR GROWTH::

The one thing I find the most in my work is how the amount of fear people have about their lives directly affects their level of growth in all areas of their lives, including relationships, work related success and health, they all have limitless potential but it is their own fear level that stops them from reaching the heights of which they are totally capable.

Some of the things that I cover are people who have skills that are equal to the task that needs to be accomplished, at least technically they have all the physical skills necessary to be very successful in their chosen ventures, but then the fear comes in and totally messes with the mind of the clients stopping them from going any further along their path of growth.

It gets so bad sometimes that I have actually gone out of my way to set up opportunities for them and when it comes to them taking the action necessary they fail to do so and they always seem to have a reason or an excuse for not taking the action that I have set up for them to follow through with, these are people who are saying they want success and act like they do but when it comes to the crunch they self destruct by allowing the fear to contaminate their faith in themselves and in others.

Some of the thoughts they allow to control them are things like I am not good enough, or what will people think if I mess up? I get scared when it comes to other peoples opinions of me? What if I fail to live up to others expectations of me?

The truth is that all your growth is in one place and that is not inside your comfort zone, it is all outside of your comfort zone, if you are at one level and you wish to go to the next level regardless of what it is you will have to go outside of your comfort zone to achieve it.

If you have done things a certain way your whole life and got the same results your whole life and you are not happy with that result then you must do things in a different way to get a different result, if you bang your finger with a hammer you move the hand away from the strike zone the next time you swing the hammer yet people do the equivalent of leaving their fingers under the hammer time and time again, they keep making the same mistakes over and over again until they get sick of it and then they change.

People say to me all the time that they are not scared but it is obvious that they are otherwise the results in their lives would be very different than what they are showing me.

Fear is an illusion, it is the opposite to love therefore fear comes from a shortage of love in the consciousness; it cannot exist at the same time and place as love.

The fear that you are feeling at times is not a bad thing it is a sign that the thing you are feeling fear about is where your growth is, we have learned to deal with our fears by avoiding them but like I said you are only scared of the unknown, there are obvious fears that we have that protect us from being hurt but even most of those are from tales from other peoples negative experiences not from our own, we are told from a young age not to talk to strangers, the problem with this one is that everyone that is now a friend was once a stranger until you met them, this is putting fear into us at our most vulnerable and impressionable time in our lives, no wonder so many people have grown up with social phobias that keep us locked away in our own fear based realities.

Ever heard of the term “better the devil you know”? Well this is again a fear based belief of those who are scared of the unknown, so they would rather experience the same pain over again instead of trying a new way of being and thinking, just because you were once bitten by a dog does not mean that all dogs want to bite you, just because in a previous relationship you were hurt does not mean that the next one will hurt, we have got to start to realise that every experience is new and is different and if we keep holding onto the fear of the negative re-occurring this is what we will continue to get because we are manifesting more of that same old outcome by holding it in our consciousness, faith, trust love are all things that dissolves the hooks of fear.

Our fears are internal in their genesis and can come to an end in the same place, inside of us, if fear was real we would all be scared of the same things but we are not, not everyone is scared of public speaking, not all of us are scared of snakes, not all of us are scared of commitment to another, your fears are just that yours and only you can have the ability to see through the veil of illusion and dissolve fears with love, love is more than a four letter word, it is all that is and when you realise this fear will dissipate quickly from your life and you can go where you never thought possible.

Our parents and carers and the media are to blame for most of the fears that we believe in but what the media and others are not teaching you is that not all people in the twin towers died, not all the people at the site of the tsunami died and not all people that live in third world countries are starving or dying of some disease, this is the problem, you are only hearing about the negative, if you do not need to read the papers then don’t, if you do not need to watch the news on television then don’t, they are all negative feedback from a reality that is being formed for you and it only becomes your reality as long as you keep listening to it and buying into it.

If our media focussed on how many people around the globe were not starving or not dying from disease or not being murdered do you think that your reality would be a little different, I think it would be very different and so would your fear level of the world around you, be careful what you are listening to and believing in, it is not all true like you may think.
LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL
SHAWN WINGARD

Lesson For August 2007 ::OUR LEVEL OF AWARENESS::

Our level of awareness can make the difference between living the life of our dreams or living inside a nightmare existence because our level of awareness directly impacts on how we perceive our realities and the choices we have to change our outlook of them.

Aware means the same as being awake; if we are not awake we are asleep, there are some people in this world who still think that they are nothing more than their name and their personality and there are others that realise that we are spirit or energy, some even prefer to call us God force. We are that which we call God.

Whichever group you belong to matters not, it simply shows that one group is more enlightened or aware than the other group, there is no judgement on the group who still think that they are what they see in the mirror, spiritual awareness is not a race and it is not a contest to see who can reach the finish line first, for if you were to have a fuller awareness of the ultimate reality you would realise that any concept or thought process that tells us that we are separate from each other is but a shadow of the truth, it is a lie.

There is no such thing as anything outside of yourself, nothing exists outside of you, no matter how convincing the illusion of separateness has become to you, it is still an illusion of your own limited awareness.

In order to become more aware we must look at everything and question it all, if we take anything for granted we are assuming that it is true but someone who wants to grow must start to question everything in their so called reality and keep asking until the truth shows itself.

We get frustrated and angry at life’s problems and the whole time it seems so real to us that we sometimes cannot tell that it is all just a reflection of our own inner world and the conflicts that reside there.

All suffering comes from one place, inside your own mind and this is also the only place where true can peace can be realised, heaven is not a place outside of us, it is a state of mind, we do not need to pass away to live in heaven and hell also is a place that is only within your own consciousness, it does not exist in the ultimate reality, everything in your world is there because you put it there, because you made it a reality by virtue of the thoughts you are thinking.

All suffering is just resistance to what is, if you resist something it hurts you and actually creates more of that, if you do not resist it causes no pain and stops more of it appearing in your life. Life is a flow of energy and if you are resisting something you are causing it to back up like a river that has been dammed, in other words you are causing more of it by resisting it, if you are allowing life to flow without resistance there are no blockages to cause us concern.

So how can we stop resistance? By looking at those things that annoy us and hurt us and change our thoughts about those things until they no longer cause us pain.

None outside of us has ever actually caused you to feel pain, there is no one outside of you, you have allowed yourself to experience that pain by the way you choose to view those set of circumstances, you have chosen consciously to resist what is happening to you and as a result caused it to go on and on and by doing so are creating more pain for yourself, don’t just take my word for it, prove it to yourself, all of us have been angry at something in our lives at some point and we have managed to get over it because we decided at some point in our angry state that the only way we were going to get over it was to change how we viewed it.

Some may say at this point that they simply calmed down but calming down is a direct result of starting to see it differently, you are choosing your illusion, no one else but you, choose it wisely.
Your thoughts are the cause of everything you know, nothing outside of you is real, your brain is like a projector and everything that seems real outside of you is just a projection of your thoughts, our entire universe and everything in it is all one energy.

Your level of awareness is the only thing that is stopping you from living the life of your dreams because all your limitation is coming from within you.

Your level of awareness is dictating the difference between you dreaming your dream life or living it. :::::::::::::>>>>>>---> Live the life! 

LOVE AND LIGHT TO ALL
SHAWN WINGARD

Lesson For July 2007 ::OUR EGO IS NOT THE ENEMY::

Many times in spiritual circles I hear negative comments about how our ego should be something to be gotten rid of and how it is something we must destroy in order to grow spiritually, not so fast is my comment on this topic, every time we hear someone commenting on someone else’s ego problem we must look at that motivation closer than what we are used to doing so we can get to the truth behind this criticism.

First of all it takes an ego problem to recognise one, this is because everyone and everything is a reflection of ourselves, and I also notice that apparently men have the greater ego problems, this is also not a truth, we all battle with our egos equally if the real truth be told, for every thing a man says and does from his ego standpoint there is a equally true story for a female as well, yes men do like to act macho at times and yes they do have an abundance of ego at times but why is the criticism really there from their female counterparts, and why do they care so much about it to comment on it regularly?

Do you recall how you felt when you have met someone who is extremely confident compared to yourself and how you felt threatened by that person, or because they had a healthy self esteem and yours was not so good? Especially when that other person was so confident that they liked to yell it to the world and let everyone know about it, including you, how did you feel about them? The point is it is just another excuse to criticise others, if someone’s ego is out of control why would it bother others so much? Sometimes an over inflated ego is actually nothing more than a cover up for low self image or more of a over compensation.

Part of our growth involves realising that men and women are equal because we are one, I also realise that a lot of changes have to occur before this becomes a reality in our world but nothing will change unless awareness is raised on this issue, and pointing out the differences is just causing more separation, so ego is a human problem not male or female but for all of us, and if you think you are different, or separate you may have to look at your own ego for thinking you are so much different than the rest of us.

As the title of this months lesson states, our ego is not the enemy, I say this because what do you think it is that makes you pick yourself up after defeat? What do you think causes you to compete with others at sports or any sort of competition? Every argument that you ever had came from an ego point of view because you wanted to win by thinking your point of view was right and the other person was wrong. This is why wars and religion takes control of our passions and our weaknesses as humans, the ego is going nowhere it will not go away, and you cannot force it out of your life because if you do you are resisting a natural inclination for survival. By resisting it you are adding to its power, let it be what it is, it is your ego that is causing you to think that you can get rid of it in the first place, and it is there for a reason.
Our ego is not the problem even though it cops a lot of criticism; the problem lies in the intentional and conscious misuse of our ego that can damage ourselves and others, if we blame the ego and not the individual this is like blaming the gun and not the gunman, this does not make any sense to look at it like that, its also a little like the bad rap that anger gets when we all know that the proper use of anger can save your life and get you out of situations that you simply could not find the strength to deal with if you were totally calm, again it is the misuse of anger that does the damage, so if someone’s ego is doing nothing more than annoying you, let it go unless it is actually doing you harm, let it go otherwise you are doing what they are doing, you are expanding the power of your ego to tell them they are wrong.

This subject is no different than any other subject in the way that it simply requires balance to be harmonious, but it is ridiculous and petty to criticise someone just because they are loud and confident and are expressing that openly, if you do this check your own ego level and see why that bothers you so much, because their is no spiritual reason why that should bother you at all remembering that that person is a reflection of you in some way, so to criticise another is criticising yourself.

This is really a tricky one if you think about it with any great depth, if someone else’s ego bothers you it is your own ego that is kicking up, yes a bit repetitive but you need to get this once and for all, because there are people out there who are proud of what they have grown so much to achieve and there are others out there who do not bother trying to achieve but they are the first people to criticise others for being outwardly proud of themselves, stop blaming the ego, if someone is proud, support them in being proud, people who are always looking for attention are this way because at some point they felt that they have had a lack of it and this can make them sound egotistical but wrongly accused, watch and listen to peoples intentions before you label them especially in cases of the ego, look deeper before you judge if you wish others to do the same for you.


Treat your ego with respect, it is a part of us that God has put there, if it had no reason for its existence it would not have been put in the human mix, it can be a part of our shadow side or a part of your light side, that is up to you but please lets all do our best to minimise judgement of others and their choice of expression on their path which we know little about and work on ourselves first then we can be in a better position to see the truth behind things.

I sincerely hope that you are all finding happiness on your path and please remember; to become truly empowered is an internal journey that comes at no cost to others, love all people the same whether they be male or female, black or white, it should matter not, we all deserve more love not less.


                       LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL AS ALWAYS

                               SHAWN WINGARD

Lesson For June 2007 ::YOUR HEALING IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY::

Our world currently more than ever before is full of silent suffering by the individual because of wars, famine, abuse, disease and neglect and many more that I have not mentioned here, and the largest problem is that most people choose to suffer their own misfortunes or those thrust upon them by others in silence, it is in the long or short term silence that the dis-ease grows, the mental dis-order grows.

If you are a person that needs healing in some form or you have things that could harm you inside instead of sharing it with someone who could help you, you are then to blame for the ongoing emotional and physical pain that you are continuing to endure, yes we can blame the people who abuse us, yes we can blame the people who are responsible for our emotional pain, and yes we can continue to point fingers at the people who we feel have caused us the most pain in our lives, but if we have the opportunity to get help which we all do at some point and then we refuse to use this opportunity to get the help we need then the onus is on you to get that help.

If a person is to call themselves a healer, one of the first things they must learn in that role is to only offer help to those who ask for it, if someone does not ask for healing a good healer will not interfere because one of the most important things that a good healer will learn on their own path is that free will should be the greatest law, and if a healer is to break this law, then that same healer may be healing someone that has agreed to endure this pain as a part of that individual soul journey, if the healer does not look at things from this perspective they are not helping that persons overall growth at all but may even be putting that persons’ soul growth in reverse.

If someone needs healing they must take the responsibility of seeking it, no one else can or should do that for them, this is about respect and not just healing someone because they might need it, they must want it, morally people can argue with this, that some will not ask for help, and my answer to that is they must not need it bad enough yet if they can not ask for it, there are examples of people who literally find themselves in situations where they literally cannot ask for help then this is when you are to use your intuition to make a clear judgement on this individual basis but most of the time we must respect that some people simply are not ready to deal with their pain and by someone forcing them to deal with this pain prematurely can actually do more damage than good.

Jesus knew this and so does a professional spiritual healer, this is why Jesus did not just heal anybody but only those who would seek him, because he knew of the importance of individual souls needs and the individual journeys to growth and sometimes pain is a necessary ingredient in that growth.

If you need help, you must seek it from someone who not only knows how to deal with it in a professional way but someone who has respect for your boundaries and knows when to push and when to back away from helping you, there comes a time in every relationship between healer and client that the healer knows that the best way to really help someone is to ultimately teach those in pain to help themselves, if this is not done the person needing the healing work can tend to become co-dependant on that therapist to a point where they forget the initial goal was to become stronger from within not through someone else’s power.

Internalising our pain causes dis-ease (lack of ease) in the body temple, when this pain or pressure is not released in a sensible responsible way, damage can occur for the patient and those who are close to the patient can pay the price of such a process being handled by a healer or therapist who is ego driven instead of putting the interest of the client first which entails plenty of patience, love and understanding of the individuals needs which sometimes can not be found in a book.

If you are hurting in some way and most people are these days, it is you that needs to seek someone to get help for your individual needs, nobody can help you unless you take that first step to help yourself, so you can stop complaining about how bad you have it and actually be a part of the process that can help change those circumstances that will alleviate the pain source, or at least see someone that can help you relieve the pressure of trying to deal with it in silence.

Pain held in will sooner or later manifest itself in physical form there is nothing more certain than this, anger, grieving, physical pain can all be dealt with in a proper way and there is no shortage of people that are willing to help, but they cannot help you until they know who you are and what your problems are, this is where you must be responsible and speak up when the opportunity is there, or when someone asks are you ok?

Do not suffer in silence, there are literally thousands of good healers out there waiting to help you, people like myself and many others are waiting to be able to help but like I said we are powerless to do anything until you ask for help that is your choice to make and that is your right to ask or not to ask.

LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL

SHAWN WINGARD.

Lesson For May 2007 ::OWNING YOUR POWER::

Hello again and welcome to the May lesson of the month, I would like to talk about the tendency to give away our personal power to others by caring or investing too much of our energy dealing with or caring too much about what others may think of us.

When you spend even a moment thinking if someone does not like you or is out to get you or even doing your reputation damage in some way or another, you are basically giving away your power to that person for the amount of time you are doing that, and the longer you do this for the weaker and more drained you will become.
I have to deal with this scenario all day long everyday with people doubting my abilities or not agreeing with my point of view, but I feel I am fortunate to be one of those people who does not get affected by negative people, as a matter of fact I use the energy they send me and use it to my own advantage instead of letting it drain me of mine and you can do the same thing once you learn how.

The first thing you must learn to do to achieve this is ask yourself why do you care so much about what so and so thinks of you, or what they are saying behind your back, why do you care?
You must find the answer to this question within yourself before you read the rest of this lesson or you will be getting ahead of yourself
- once you have found the answer to this question the next thing you must do is come up with a way to counteract this problem of caring what others think of you and this can only be done first of all by knowing why you care about their opinion in the first place.

If you are the type of person who walks into a room full of people and your mind is overloaded by thoughts of what everyone thinks of you well you have just given all your power away to everyone in that room whether you realise it or not, this is not good and you will find that most of those people in that room will see that you care what they think simply by you looking insecure and under confident through your body language.

The major problem with this is the people that we care about most and their opinions of us are our peers and our family members, we can find it easy to tell some of our friends what we believe in and how we feel but if we were to be honest with ourselves we will find that there are certain individuals in our lives that we do not tell it how we feel it and this is an example of letting someone else own your power, now if you do this with too many people or spend too much time dwelling on others thoughts about you this can send you into the loony bin or worse in some severe cases to suicide.

This is unnecessary and it can be changed but it will take courage, but it is like driving a car for the first time, the first drive can be overwhelmingly scary for us but once you have done it that first time it does get easier and easier the more we do it until we get to the point where we do it with natural ease and that is what we must endeavour to do if we want this problem of other peoples thoughts affecting us to change in any major way.

It is your personal power that you need to get through life and if we are continuously spreading it thin by giving it away to others we are not utilising our full power or potential, and this is why some people with this problem are always feeling powerless or sitting on the victim throne, you do not have to sit there you can do something about it by changing what you care about and what you do not care about, sure if someone says something positive about you, this is a good thing to take on board because this actually adds to your personal power and if you get enough positive feedback this can drive you forward to excel in many ways, it is the negative that is the problem and only you have the power to change the way you deal with it.

Ask yourself what is the worst thing that could possibly happen if you told your mother and father that you do not believe in the same thing as them?

Why should you not become more spiritual because your partner thinks it is a lot of baloney?

They have the right to have their opinion what makes you think you have less of a right?

Learn to be confident in speaking your truth, it is important to your growth, it does not matter what you think there will always be someone who will disagree with it and a lot of the time they actually agree with you but they just love to start trouble or play the devils advocate so to speak, so take some pride in what you believe in and do not let people think that you are stupid because every time some one argues with you ,you back down like a scorned child, fight for what you believe in, it is one of the most important growth tools that you can employ to be free and I mean truly free.
You can own your personal power without fighting or arguing simply by not letting there truth become yours.

The sceptic will never find the truth as long as they are a sceptic because they are not looking for the truth ,they are looking for only what it is they wish to find and that is their own truth, and you can do the same, you are only seeing your own truth but when you care what others think too much you are looking for their truth and never finding your own, this is not a good way to live and I suggest you find a way to change it no matter what it takes to achieve this goal.

You can tell when you are in full control of your own power, you can feel it coursing through your veins, you can feel the confidence in the way you speak, the way you walk and so can others sense this in you; others can only see in you what you have the courage to show them, if all you have courage for is to show them your insecurities, that is all they will see in you and unfortunately most people who are weak within themselves will use your lack of power against you to rob you of what little power you have left, so be aware of what you are portraying to the rest of the world, it is your world as much as it is theirs, remember that, remember that when someone else tries to make their truth yours by force, I encourage you to not even take my truth as yours, I encourage you to question everything it is that I have tried to teach you and only live that which resonates with your truth and discard the rest.

The time has come to start to own your personal power and by doing this watch the rest of the world start to look at you differently, with a different respect knowing that you have made them aware that you have power to, and what you think is just as important as what they think and stick to it, it is your job and your responsibility to yourself to make this happen, own it, for it is yours, or someone else will.

LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL, SHAWN WINGARD

Lesson For April 2007 ::RIDING THE WAVE::

We are all very well aware of the fact that life has its fair share of ups and downs but what a lot of us have not learned yet is that these life ups and downs are like a wave that will always be there to throw us around if we do not learn how to ride the wave effectively and come out of the lows of the wave with ease.

I think most people refer to the low of the wave as a rut, first of all a rut is a direct result of thinking the same incorrect way for an extended period of time, long enough to keep manifesting the same outcomes, ruts do have a purpose as well, I mean take the case of a friend of mine who would always complain about the way his life was not satisfying to him, now what he was always doing was continuously complaining to me and others that his life was crap basically and that nothing ever worked out for him, his relationships would fail not long after they had started and he had no money and his health was always seemingly on a downward spiral, hmm! Gee I wonder why that could be, maybe he has a problem with the way he is viewing things, I can not recall him ever talking about the fact that he was handsome, had plenty of women wanting his attention , or that he was earning more than most people I know and that he was a slob, no wonder he had bad health.

His life was one of self caused misery and it was not until I pointed out to him that he was viewing his version of reality through a set of very negative and foggy glasses that he is choosing to wear but could change the glasses he was wearing to reveal a whole other truth and all he would have to do to change his outlook was to decide to do so, it was that easy, at first he thought because I am a spiritual teacher that I was going to give him some mumbo jumbo about how I could change his life and all that sort of stuff but the truth was I cannot change his life or yours, you must do that and so all I can do is give ideas and options of alternative ways of seeing life that can improve the quality of it.

If you were to start to become aware of the fact that even the best of us have these low moments and the wave of life spares none of us it can become easier to stop feeling sorry for ourselves and to try to come up with ways of actually dealing with it instead of complaining about it like a child who doesn’t get his or her way because if you do this you are doing something I call resisting or fighting the wave, if you have ever been at the beach or in deep rough water the worst thing you can do is try to fight the current or the force of the wave and actually the best way to survive it is to go with the flow of the wave, it takes less effort and is less stressful to you.

So if you are aware that it is inevitable for all of us that we are going to have these lows if we like it or not my advice is if you want your life to turn for the better is to start to like the lows and appreciate them for what they are there to teach us, the longer it takes for you to become aware of the purpose of something the longer it takes to go away, liking the low is the same as no longer fighting against the wave, life starts to become a little easier straight away when you stop resisting it, what we resist persists, this is true and it always will be, for example if someone is yelling at you or getting in your face and upsetting you the worst possible thing you can do is retaliate in like manner this has never worked with anyone and it never will, it is resisting what is, you must learn that when someone pushes you, you should not push back, you pull, in other words you work with their energy and absorb and transmute it into love if you are able to have the strength of character to do that, if you can the argument will be short lived and it will dissolve tensions immediately because there is no resistance from you to bounce off.

This is not the same thing as ignoring the yelling person this can be dangerous and make them angrier I am saying that if nothing is there to bounce off to give this person resistance then the tension is having nowhere to go and it will be released into the atmosphere.

The low of the wave is necessary, without the lows we would have nothing to compare with good times to fully appreciate them, if you were always sick for most of your life you would definitely appreciate being well more than someone who has always been well, everything has its polar opposite, lows are there because they balance out the highs and make us appreciate them more than you would if you were always being happy and everything was always going well.

The lows can be very dark and last for a long time but how long they last and dark they get is being regulated by someone who has total control over them, YOU.

If you choose to keep resisting what is then you are just asking for more pain, more of the self made illusion that can keep you in your shitty little reality forever, the truth is that you and you alone are choosing the illusion in which you are existing, you are writing the script to your life movie, all you have to do is change the script, change the characters in it and give it a good ending and not a bad one.
YOU have always written your own script to your own movie you just didn’t know it, but what are you going to do now that you know it?

WE ARE ALL MASTER MANIFESTORS OF OUR OWN REALITY!!
BELIEVE IT !!
USE IT WITH CONCIOUS AWARENESS OF WHAT IT IS THAT YOU ARE BRINGING TO LIFE
BY THINKING IT AND IN TURN MANIFESTING IT INTO YOUR REALITY!

LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ALL
SHAWN WINGARD


Lesson For March 2007 ::SEEING THROUGH THE ILLUSION::

Everything that we see, hear, feel, taste and smell is nothing more than an elaborate and very convincing illusion and it is only the spiritual teachers and the rare people among us that realise this.

Our eyes are sensing a vibration and our brains are translating that vibration into a picture which gives us the sense of us looking at something solid in form, when we feel something we are also feeling a vibration and our brain is taking the feedback from that vibration and making us think that whatever it is we are touching is real or solid in form, but it is not, the things we feel that we think are solid are in reality only two percent solid and the other 98 percent of that perceived object is neutral energy that is continuously changing form.

Under a strong microscope you will see at its greatest magnification cells and atoms that are not solid but in a continual state of movement or vibration.

When we taste something or smell something it seems so real but in actual fact this is also an illusion it is nothing more than a translated vibration seeming real to us because we have been taught no better, this is the stuff we are not being taught at school.

Everything we know of in this universe including the universe itself is a vibration, our individuality is also an illusion we are all the same energy with different vibration so it seems that we are separate from each other.

If you think that you are a certain race like Scottish or African or whatever it maybe you have also been caught up in the illusion because this would mean that you are separate or different from another, which is incorrect and it always has been incorrect, you are source energy or God force, you are spirit first and foremost, you are an energy field living inside a larger energy field which we call the human body or body temple.

It is this separation thinking that has caused all wars and arguments amongst humans because once we start to think in terms of thinking we are separate from each other this started to make room for ego to enter the equation, as a results of ego input we start to get ideas of one race being better than the other or more powerful than the other and this is total nonsense and has no basis in reality, only in the illusion this theory lives and here it shall always remain for those who continue to live in the illusion.

The truth is there is only one race we need to concern ourselves with and that is the human race, we are all one with the creator; we are the creator, we are God.

If we are struggling with money this is because we still entertain the theory that money is separate from us, it is not we are money, we are health, we are love, it is not outside of us at all, the money is within you ,within your own consciousness because money is energy and everything else that you want is also within you, the difference lies in your ability to realise this and to allow it into your life, you are stopping it from being by your beliefs about it or the learned illusion of separation from it, you can think consciously or unconsciously that you are not worthy of money or love so it does not get a chance to be expressed through you but have no doubt it is in you not from the outside this is impossible no matter how you have learned it becomes.

It is our bodies that can be the cause of the illusion of separation but is no different than saying water is different than steam, but as you know water is steam and steam is water just in a different form and again ice and water the same thing that whole time is still all coming from water.
Our thoughts are a vibration also so if we can resonate with that which we desire we will bring it into our physical reality and you do this by really wanting something and then believe it is possible for you to have it, once you can do this all you have to do to have anything is be open to receive it, that is all you have to do.

I have heard it said by men and women alike that they have different energies and in a limited way of knowing this could be seen as correct but for those who know more than this limited form of thinking know that this is impossible and also an illusion it certainly may serve people to think this way if their ego is their guidance tool but we are all the same energy, some of us are just choosing to serve the ego by allowing themselves to think in a supremacist fashion because of the dislikes or issues with the other sex. The only thing in this thinking that can be seen as even a part truth is that maybe we choose to express that energy differently but believe me it is all the same energy.

It may seem to serve you to be indifferent with the opposite sex but the truth is it is not serving you as an evolving spiritual being it is just feeding your ego self which is not your true self, it is the part of you that has fallen for the illusion of hurt and pain being caused to you by the opposite sex, the two sexes are one energy being expressed differently for balance, like black and white good and evil but evil only exist in the minds of the uninitiated and those limited in their thoughts, evil is just distance from light but not separate from it, a man is just distant from women but not separate.

This is caused by the way we have been brought up in society and the different roles we have been told to experience, we are neutral energy choosing to express it in different ways but it is of paramount